Went to a gathering. My fren brought me. Met 20 new people. This is too much socializing in one night for me. Just came back. Felt emotionally drained. Mental power is zero. Gonna sleep after this.
Actually, I am a confident person when I talk to guys but with girls, it's just is weird and awkward. I am not gay at all but I am so uncomfortable talking to female.
Summary of noob things I did tonight:-
a) made eye-contact to all guys but made so few eye contacts with girls.
b) say only 'hi' when introduced to a new girl and when I say this it means ONLY 'hi'
c) failed in hiding the perverted look at some girls who are just too attractive (not that I have any feelings for them just that some are too attractive)
d) made noob joke to girl I met before, 'where's your boyfriend?',I said without even knowing that the guy I saw her with the last time we met is really her bf (They looked like a couple.damn mother-o) and she said,' Boyfren? Maner satu?' Nampak sangat playgirl or maybe budget playgirl
e) Failed to respond when girls tell me where they live bla bla bla... All I said was, 'Owhh K...' and then talked to the nearest guy
f) behaving like a gay by talking enthusiasticly when in a conversation with a boy but talking boringly to girls
Conclusion is so much room for improvement for me in socializing. Maybe I should treat girls like boys but cant make noob joke with girls and some girls are so femininely attractive that there is no way I can act like she is a boy. Damnit...
Actually conclusion is I am a NOOOOOOOOOOBBBBBB........
cool man. try to break that wall and treat women equally as men.be a comidian.hold a concept that u have to control the situation before the situation hold u.forget about ur saham, better start a conversation with a critiscm. try to lose in a debate at first time conversation like noob. they`ll know u better.egoistic and win always in a conversation make they repel u. this is some tips that may make u better.
ReplyDeleteInteresting point. Maybe I should just act dumb. I dont need to show my intelligence. They might think I'm complicated. Good point indeed.. LOL...
ReplyDeleteThis post made me laugh. But often I find a little bit of humility very attractive in a guy. The easiest way to start a conversation I think, is to ask a few questions.
ReplyDeleteHurmm... I guess showing interest should be the key. ^^
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